So I'm Married Now?

After my mysterious disappearance for the past couple of months I am now reappearing with utmost vim and vigour!!!

I have been for sometime now looking for a special someone to call my own in order to start a loving family with Allah's grace.  So it just happened.  Like that.  I met someone.  BAM! I'm married.

I can't even begin to tell you how it happened because you will all think I'm crazy. Insane. Desperate. But the truth is, when it feels right and all doubts are lifted... It is right.  So since you are all interested in knowing what really went down I will tell you.  In a nutshell it's very simple, after a long search, I final meet a decent man with immaculate manners and maturity MashaAllah.  He got me in touch with his sisters and I spoke with the sisters to get info on him and vice versa.  I essentially build a relationship with the sisters and a week later we were married.


YES JUST LIKE THAT!


I married a Saudi Arabian man.  Not a national.  Someone born and raised in KSA with the whole cultural & religious values package deal! MashaAllah, like an upgraded version of a Saudi National lol. I really hit jackpot with this guy! Alhamdulillah.  Wallah he is my dream man.

I haven't told anyone because I honestly don't want to hear all the negativity.  Here in Canada, STRAIGHT UP people don't want to see you happy! Now I don't personally care about the haters because I will cut them off... However, the Hasad (hatred) and the Aayn (envy) is very real in muslim communities in Canada.  No one wants to see you going good.  They don't want to see you happy or even have the thought of you being happier than them.  People here (especially in Toronto) thrive off of the misery of others.  It's unreal.  So, I'm keeping it a secret until I'm ready to leave inshaAllah.  That way I will avoid all haters and be like "BYE FELICIA!" Hahahaha

But honestly, your private life should be kept private.  Even though you may be super excited and happy to the point you want to shout out loud on the highest mountain.  Even the people you may have thought were your friends will turn on you and become your rival.  Trust me, I know first hand through previous experiences.  Know the difference between someone that is truly concerned and someone throwing shade.

"Everyone wants to see you doing good but never better than them."

Keep your happiness to yourself and you will go very far in life.  My true and real friends are happy for me and have expressed their real concerns.  Alhamdulillah, this is from Allah.  Regardless of anything, I made my Istikahara and Allah Subhana wa Ta'Ala made it easy for me.

I pray Allah helps everyone find a suitable 

spouse that will bring happiness to their lives.

Ameen.

Take Care & InshaAllah Khair

Duni